True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism

By: Mildred L. Brown and Chloe Ann Rounsley

Review by Devon I. McCollum

(This review originally appeared in the November, 1999 edition of the Monterey County Chapter of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists newsletter)

I first heard about the book True Selves from my primary therapist. I was just starting therapy for gender dysphoria, and Dr. Mildred Brown had been "appointed" as my secondary therapist. I was told to read the book for information as well as to get a feel for Dr. Brown's style. I had been researching transsexualism for a few years before I started therapy, and I thought I had read it all.

When I read True Selves, the first thing I noticed was the equality of the female-to-males versus the male-to-females. This is a rarity, as female-to-male transsexuals -- like myself -- are not usually represented as fairly as male-to-female transsexuals. Somehow the ratio is always lower, which I noticed during my earlier research. It was quite refreshing to see the balance of the two in this book.

Anyone questioning their gender or who wishes to better understand transsexuals should read True Selves. The author relates in human terms how transsexuals really feel, how difficult adolescence can be, and what we go through on a day-to-day basis...not only using clinical studies but more importantly words spoken from real people. I have never read so many real-life accounts and experiences, both good and bad. The chapters covering "Coming Out" to family, friends, and co-workers are superb. Every aspect of transsexualism is covered in a supportive, caring fashion. The advice she gives to those who are having a difficult time understanding or accepting transsexuals is perfectly written and so compassionate.

Dr. Brown has so many years of experience in this field, and her knowledge of the field really shines in True Selves. Thank you, Dr. Brown and Ms. Rounsley, for putting together a book that can and will help so many people.